I pride myself on being an individual as do MOST of my friends male or female, yet this trend in society today tends to worry me a little. We see males rocking "skinny jeans" with a super sag with there ass literally hanging out (not hot)... and females seem to be straying so far away from reality with make up if they wash it off while you were sleep you will probably wonder "WTF did i drink last night?"... and sadly enough it gets worse.
Now i know, i know, im gonna catch alot of flak from this but... FUCK IT!
Ladies this one is for you and you only but males please read cuz you might be "that nigga" boostin it up like its hot... Now i know Nicki Minaj is the shit, Kim K-Dash got a name, and Rihanna got........? beat? BUT please chill with the multi colored hair and super tight clothes.
WHY?! you ask... simple if you are one of these women who say "i'm jus looking for a real/good man" by joining the 5 million other women who not only want to be like them but choose to dress like them dont be suprised when you get TREATED like them... i can tell you from asking multiple male friends and acquaintances that while these women catch your eye (mainly cause they have money and are on tv) they are not seen as WIFEY material... now true some males like that, actually alot of males like that... but then aint that the same type of nigga you been gettin with and gettin left by??? soooo... why do it again with the same style to another nigga from the same area with the same mind set... you aint do nuthin but trade skin color prolly (probably for tha slow ones)... in the club all males like to SEE that because its nice to see sum tig-ole-bitties poppin out left n right all in yea face (name ONE dude that will complain that aint ya b/f... i got time i'll wait........), no dude will get mad to see a nice booty jiggle past him in sum super tight pants, hell i know girls that like it, but you cant tell me you put this on to find a good one when you keep having bruhs grab, touch, and pull, on whatever they can to get your attention.
If i dress like a cop and walk down the street when you are getting robbed, you're gonna expect me to help... but if i say "nah im good i just like dressing like a cop so back up off me" you're gonna get mad...
Well... i hate to say this but... if you dress like a street walker (ho/hooker/whore to the slow ones) then dont be suprised when you get treated that way...
STOP!!! not to say any of these actions are OK in my eyes i think its sad honestly... my mama raised me better!
Honestly the type of dude you are probably looking for... is that dude that wants to see you outside the club dressed down in your "fuck it/lazy day" clothes... now i know sum females out there beat boxin me right now (pssh, smack*, psssh, whateva), but its the honest truth. A girl that can be beautiful without trying is simply beautiful, sometimes you take something amazing and DESTROY it with make up, push up bras, fake nails, weaves, wigs, dyes, contacts, eyelashes... ect. basically all of my close female freidns have heard me say it "you look good... but you look great dressed down" i dont say it to get tha panty-draws i say it cuz ima tell you the truth 92.85% of the time (other times i lie because its what you need to hear) and when you have all these FAKE things why would you expect to find a REAL man... so i guess what im sayin is...
We Luv Deez Hoez.... "But I'm Sayin' Though" we dont Love them hoes..."SO!" if you dress the part expect to be treated it... and when you reach that point of GROWTH... then look for a real man... holla
Jrome - Mr. I'ma Get Sniped
This is the official blog of Gevar, Jrome and Vaughn. We named it Ghidorah because King Ghidorah is a 3 headed dragon, and in some ways we can be a three headed beast. We chose to blog because many people were interested in our opinions and conversation that they participated in. This blog allows people to see our viewpoint and even challenge our ideas.
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If you use your breast, legs and thighs to POPEYES, don't be surprised when you get treated like a piece of meat!! LOL. Nice blog!
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