Artistic Passion... All Me! (pt. II)

Part II check em out, hope you like, enjoy! Artistic Passion... All Me!

Good Love

I want that happy to hear voice kinda good love that i can't sleep all the way thru the night without you kinda good love that quick to cook you any dinner kinda good love that "i'll get at you later dawg" kinda good love that leave work quick for a kiss kinda good love that only wantin to see you kinda good love that cut off the alarm just to stay with you kinda good love that give up a kidney just to be apart of you kinda good love that wake up smilin cuz im next to you kinda good love that call you just to know you care kinda good love that text me and i'll text you back kinda good love that change my status cuz i know you'll read it kinda good love that hide your bag so you cant go to work kinda good love that "go ahead chill wit ya girls" kinda good love that "i love you more... no i love you more" kinda good love that stay up all nite makin love kinda good love that "i'ma get the last word" kinda good love that make you a gift just because kinda good love that take you to meet my moms kinda good love that "i cant get enough of..." kinda good love that "lets take a trip outta town" kinda good love that "here's some money go have fun" kinda good love that "baby let me massage you" kinda good love that "today is your day" kinda good love that "come out with me" kinda good love that "you are my prototype" kinda good love that "he went to see Jared" kinda good love that for you money aint a thang kinda good love that ima stay home cuz she sick kinda good love that anywhere you are is where im tryin to be kinda good love that 2Pac - Smile For Me kinda good love that "girl u know i-i-i-i-i love you" kinda good love that i cant see me being happy without you kinda good love that together we make musical master pieces kinda good love that it dont get no better kinda good love that its so simple we get lost in each other kinda good love that i cant remember when it wasnt good kinda good love that it cant be this good kinda good love that ”what you know bout Skee-Lo” kinda good love that "naaaah you listen to that too?" kinda good love that made me forget cause i saw you kinda good love that lets just watch movies tonite kinda good love that fallin asleep in each others arms kinda good love that i didn't know what love was kinda good love that you make this love more than good kinda good love now thats my kinda good kinda good love haha

Beau-t-full

I prayed just to see her Dark rooms would brighten with her smile her eyes Beauty enough to make a grown man cry but I wipe away my tears God must have been on my side because im blind at the sight of her I hoped to smell the sweetness of her The newest bloom after the first rain of spring had not grasp of it A fresh cut honeydew would smell sour when compared I got what I wanted when I overdosed from the scent of her I fiended for her touch till I touched her Because when denied so many times my pride ached But the spirit in me wouldn’t allow me to break And once I had I couldn’t get enough of her I begged for a kiss till I kissed her Crazy when I thought I never would I was given more Not sex but a kiss on the cheek that sparked something like never before So when contact was made I was in deep deep bliss with her I needed the love from her At a time when I thought the word was no more than a joke The meaning was reinstated quicker than the light each night with a click Like a drug she has me addicted till I get the love of…. Her

L... Word

The day I saw you was the day something changed Because for the first time in a long time I smiled Now I can’t see whether it was your eyes peering into my soul Or your smile kissing my eyes with beauty Perhaps it was that sweet smell that graced my nose Maybe even the way you touched my arm so slightly as we passed But I knew then what I never thought I would… I look at u and smile because i know what i want, I want to be happy and I want you to make that a reality I feel something more than I’m used to feeling Or am I just creating this to please myself No because I haven’t felt this before this is new Maybe I’m over thinking what I feel and should just let it happen But why does it feel like it’s stalling… My Mind is playing tricks on me And my heart is playing tricks on you Believe me I want to say it… I feel like I should say it… But I just can’t say it... To you Everything is telling me that this is right But I can’t help but hold back the… You said it to me and I know you meant it I feel it in your voice it’s true it’s real I thought my heart had healed I thought I was better Yet still here I am frozen like ice It’s hard to breathe because inside I’m so cold I want to be happy I think I want you But I’m not happy with me yet… I’m in love with your loving but unable to love the lover At least not until I find love for me…

She Loves

She loves that feeling when I touch her, her body shakes n shivers And when I lick my lips that chill down her spine makes her lips quiver Or just the thought that when it happens she knows I will deliver And after every word I brush back her hair and lean in to kiss her She loves that feeling when we're alone and I hold her tight And the thoughts running thru her head that she can be here all night The stress eases and the pain fades cuz now everything is alright Never wonder about wandering eyes cuz she’s the only one in my sight She loves the feeling when I say I love her she wants to scream And the things I do only for her jus makes her cream Or that her friends hate cuz I can’t possibly be what I seem Maybe because she knows she’s the only one I want on my team She loves the feeling that I have no reason to lie And every time we're together it’s a natural high Like John Legend our feet stay scraping the sky Plus knowing I’m the only man that won’t make her cry She loves the feeling that this is possibly the best that love can be And knowing that if she runs I’ll chase her when she flees And knowing everyday she can call and I’ll be there if she needs She loves the feeling of being loved.... but does she love me?

Are you done yet?!

Another night of doing the same old boring thing. You know by look in his eye what is about to go down. So you already know play by play what the night (in some cases few minutes lol) entails. Play one: He grabs your butt. CHECK Play two: He kisses your ear. CHECK Play three: He tell you he is going to beat it down (you already know his three pumps aren't worth your time) CHECK Four plays later, you are left bored, moaning out of habit and thinking to yourself "DAMN! Are you done yet?!?"

How do so many of us men and women get to this point? I think there is no specific one answer but I will give you some insight on how to prevent it and how to bring that spark back into your relationship. Don't bring sex into the relationship too early! I know it sounds old fashioned and cliche but it is so true in many cases. I know sometimes the passion can be so deep that you can't even wait past the first night. lol But this can really kill a long term relationship. You pull out all your best trick from your freak'um bag ranging from doing the Passion Propeller1, the Lusty Leg Lift2 and even the Dirty Sanchez3(OH MY!) in the first month of dating. By the time month 6 rolls around, your sexual repertoire is mundane to say the least. If she is worth it, she is worth the wait. Don't hype your partner up into thinking you are some type sexual Mandingo Warrior! Hyping yourself up too much can BACKFIRE quickly! Don't tell her that you can work it so good that you will make her weave fall off when in actuality you don't even know where to put it or your bust as soon as you see some bare tid-days(titties). First impressions are lasting impressions! So, make sure that you can cash any check that you write when it comes to your "abilities". Don't think all partners are the same and like the same things. I think this is a very important lesson that should be learned. Just as in life, it is easy to do things out of habit and comfortableness. There is a high probability if we go into the bedroom with these same tactics one person will be left unsatisfied and disappointed. Just because Ashley liked it from the back and to pull her hair does not mean Jessica likes it the same way. Hell, she might jack you up for even TOUCHING her hair (mainly applied to black women lol) This leads me to my next point. Take the time to learn what your partner likes and dislikes. As I said before, every woman is different. The sooner you realize this the sooner you will be one step closer to understanding the femal psyche4. I know that the most male brains are focused on one main goal BUT take the time to explore her body. It is easy to determine if a woman like what you are doing to her. If you are kissing down her back and she tenses up or you are not getting any verbal ques, OBVIOUSLY she does not like that. You will really know a woman is satisfied if she pulls you in closer or she returns the favor in the same mannor with out you asking. ;^) Learn how to give oral sex the right way. I dont know where else to bring up the topic. So I guess I'll slide it in (no pun intended lol) here. If this is a part of your relationship, learn the proper way to do it! I know i said that every one like differnt things BUT there are some things that you should NEVER do. If you are giving this to a man ladies, do NOT and i repeat DO NOT use your teeth! That ish hurts them! There is no tootsie roll or bubble gum in the center. So, there is no need to knaw on it. Also ladies, I know some of you have a weird fantasy of putting your finger or dildo in a mans butt. If he allows you to do this, he is NOT a straight man. This is offensive and disrespectly to expect your man to allow you to do this. Now on to you men, teeth on the clit=no, no, no! Think of the clit as the tip of your penis. It is very sensitive. Be delicate and gradually work up to more intsense strokes. I read somewhere that if you are unsure on how to perfor oral sex on a lady, spell out the alphabet with your tounge while doing it. I will take that a step further and say cursive letters ;) Understand that is is not always about you. This may not be the case most of the time because females are usually selfish in the bedroom from what I hear from my friends. But, you must be willing to satisfy her sexual needs before you are "finished". Many times, to set the mood, you can tease her in order to get her worked up enough that she is willing to do just about anything to your body. Kiss her in her most desired spots, rub her in the right places, and in between the two just put the tip in. I promise you, she will be begging you for more! She may even flip you over and take it from you! ;) It does not always have to be a marathon! Espcially at two in the morning when we have to work the next day. You may be suprised to hear this but we like quickies too! Just as men don't like slow passionate sex ALL the time, women don't like marathon sex all the time either. Some men LOVE to brag about how long they are last but that is not alway appealing to us. Women aren't faucets. The juices will stop flowing at some point. No woman likes a raw, swollen, and beat up vag in the morning. You may find this shocking but we don't want to be walking funny the next day either! No one wants to get those stares of "what does she have baking down there" No cute fellas, not cute. Be willing to try new things. I think this is the MOST important piece of advice that i can give! You can have all the right moves and say all the right things. But, if you have been doing and saying these things to same person since '98 it is tired and old by now. Maybe you have always done it in the bed room. Maybe try it on the kitchen counter (make sure you wipe it down afterwards though. no one wants ass juice on their food the next meal), or go to a movie in the middle of the day that you know there is a high chance no one will be in (like No Strings Attached. you know there won't be ANYBODY watch that garbage) and do a little foreplay action and finish up the activities at home. Maybe even watch a porno (tons a free sites out there. Nobody buys them for $39.99 anymore) together and act out what's on the screen. My point is, just be willing to do things differently sometime. Be willing to explore. Sex needs to grow as long as the relationship grows. You have to switch it up and spice it up every so often so that you are in one of those "Damn! Are you done yet?!" situations.

Signed,

JustCallMeKei

Notes 1 Passion Propeller: Your man lies on top of you, entering you in traditional missionary style, but then — yowza! — he starts doing a 360-degree spin, all the while keeping his penis deep inside of you. As he's rotating and thrusting, help guide him around your body like a propeller would spin around the top of a helicopter. Make sure to lift his legs when they swing around over your head. 2 Lusty Leg Lift: Face your partner, standing with your legs shoulder width apart. Take your left foot and turn it out to the side while keeping your right one facing forward. Have him widen his stance, with his legs about three feet apart, and then ask him to bend his knees ever-so-slightly. Wrap your arms around his neck and have him put his arms snugly around your lower back. Here’s where it gets a little tricky: Pull your right leg up and place your right foot on his left shoulder, keeping your right knee bent. As he slowly enters you, ease into the vertical split by sliding your calf as far up his left shoulder as you comfortably can. 3 Dirty Sanchez: When you have anal sex and then wipe the crap on your partner's upper lip giving them a Hitler.

4 You will NEVER EVER dissect the female thought process entirely! Hell, we don't even know what we want most of the time.

No Sex: My Reevaluation of Relationships Part 2

Let's continue from where I left off in Part 1
http://ghidorah3.blogspot.com/2011/02/no-sex-my-reevaluation-of-relationships.html

Lust should never be mistaken for love, but it is everyday. We choose our wants over our needs. Love doesn’t leave anyone hurt, angry and confused when it’s all said and done. I don’t want to be in a relationship where my ex can’t talk to me. To have my ex avoiding me at every turn. How sad is that to be the person always trying to hide and avoid the other person because you feel hurt, and you can’t let it go? As a couple you spend a couple of months or a couple of years telling and showing people how much in love you are. You meet each other’s families, tell each other your most intimate secrets only to never talk again…. And that feeling mostly comes from confusion. We confuse lust and love only to feel emotionally betrayed by the other person, but most of the time we set ourselves up. At the end of the day, it’s on us. We made the poor decision that left us the way we are. I don’t want that. I don’t want to have regret over my past relationships (yes that is regret when you are putting effort into avoiding your ex, don’t fool yourself). I want to build and create relationships out of love and understanding; those relationships grow into life long friendships and partnerships, even if the romantic relationship comes to an end. I don’t like the fact that someone I confided in is no longer a friend, just because we ended a romantic relationship. It apparently wasn’t meant to be a sexually romantic relationship. Some times we grow apart but we turn that growth into regression with our ill will. I also don’t’ want to feel like my relationship with my wife is a burden. Who keeps friends around that are constant burdens? No one, so why should your spouse/girlfriend be any different, they live with you and share every aspect of your life… let's make sense people. I want me and my wife to be on the same page and 7 hours a week is not going to get us there. So I made the decision to focus my attention on what really matters. My initial reason to refrain from sex was because I was tired. I wanted to eliminate the confusion that comes with sex. I was/am tired of the rat race to chase skirts. I have no desire to “hook up” it serves me no purpose toward my overall dream and goal to having a loving family.

Hooking up doesn’t seem respectful to me either. I’m using you to give me what I want and it just makes me feel bad at the end of the day. Then, what’s the point if I never want to call you other than to have sex? What’s the point if I never want to introduce you to my friends and family? Why have “friends” that you purposely keep in the shadows? I know there are exceptions; at least people think there are. There are people who make platonic relationships work, but why always fight against the rule just so you can justify the exception? Friends with benefits don’t last. I don’t care how much communication you two have it just isn’t meant to be something long term, so justifying it is pointless. The whole point of forming the verbal contract is to avoid putting effort into going out and engaging in meaningless hook-ups. So now you have found a “way out” with someone who shares the same idea, but someone is eventually going to catch feelings and get hurt because the other person doesn’t share those same feelings. It’s all cool when you are using each other, you both are getting what you both want without the fear of being in a real relationship, where you have to care about the other person…. But like I said in Wants vs. Needs, you are ALWAYS going to want more. In that situation you wanting more is justifiable, why wouldn’t it be? Nobody wants to stay the same. Every day we are striving to be better than we are today, so why be in a “relationship” (or I guess a contract) that goes nowhere? Eventually someone is going to want it to go further or move on to something better. The confusion and hurt occurs when the two aren’t on the same page….. Come to think of it… one person wants to further the relationship and the other wants to move on…. That's very similar most relationship break-ups. I’m just saying.

 Liquid Spirits ft. Phonte - If You Don't Love Me by EVO85 

I have constantly asked this question throughout the years, why do friendships last longer than romantic relationships? They are both relationships right, both include love, understanding, trust, etc. I use to think sex was the difference, but we make sex the difference. We claim that we can’t have sex with our opposite sex friends because it will ruin the relationship… hold up… why do we say this? So you mean to tell me that WE KNOW that sex ruins relationships? So WHY do we turn around and have sex with a “stranger” and claim that we are in love??? Sense made to me… none. We are some very confusing creatures and all of it is because we operate off our wants. We are too small minded. Even when it comes to getting in a relationship, we only care about what WE want over someone that actually cares and respects us. That’s some funny stuff. We know what makes a relationship fall apart and work, yet we fail to get past our own selfishness. I don’t want to question myself so much when it comes to relationships. I’m tired of questioning my relationships; I want to know that it feels right and not try to convince myself that it feels right. I want to develop a friendship that isn’t tainted by the effects of sex or confusion. I’m not trying to base my decisions off lustful desires or sexual satisfaction/dissatisfaction. I feel like if I love you and the sex is bad, then I (or you) can learn to be better. That’s the point of being in love, understanding and growing together, making each other better. You have to WANT to be and do better though, and when it comes to a relationship you have to look beyond yourself to do so. Not saying that you have to deny yourself pleasure or satisfaction, just don’t put that completely over the other person.

I think people spend too much time putting emphasis on pleasure and sex. Everything that feels or looks good isn’t always good for you. Instant gratification never got any one anywhere worth truly being either. So I decided to do something about it. It hasn’t been that easy either, deprogramming yourself isn’t easy or fun, but I believe that it will take me to the places I want to be. It really is an interesting thing to look beyond what I want. It’s nice being able to see more than I was able to see before.