tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76716325892190845632024-03-14T02:23:35.014-05:00GhidorahThis is the official blog of Gevar, Jrome and Vaughn. We named it Ghidorah because King Ghidorah is a 3 headed dragon, and in some ways we can be a three headed beast. We chose to blog because many people were interested in our opinions and conversation that they participated in. This blog allows people to see our viewpoint and even challenge our ideas.Ghidorah3http://www.blogger.com/profile/09009793379911223858noreply@blogger.comBlogger90125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-58215399947916614352020-09-08T16:24:00.001-05:002020-09-08T16:36:34.846-05:00... I’m tired...... sigh... Go home stop protesting. There are no bad cops, go home stop protesting. They were justified, go home stop protesting. There is no such thing as racial issues, go home stop protesting. Black people kill black people, go home stop protesting. They had a criminal record, go home stop protesting. Statistics say it’s not THAT bad, go home stop Jromehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307684990818443307noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-73720115800190015912012-02-14T09:04:00.001-06:002012-02-14T10:20:00.780-06:00Happy Valentine's Day 2012Its been a while hasn't it?
I know this may not be the best time to make a post on the blog, but it's Valentine's Day. The day we set aside to celebrate love. The day that couples frolic around. A day where bitter singles like to fast forward through as if this day carries more sting than the other lonely days. A day were thirsty (desperate) females have been passing out thirst flyers in the Vaughnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00715483939578755236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-18081705463653085492011-10-24T11:42:00.000-05:002011-10-24T11:42:10.165-05:00Alternate RealitiesI was at work chatting with my coworker when she made the statement that “everyone has their own reality.” I didn’t argue with her at first mainly because it made me curious. So before I kept thinking about it I decided to run the question by Gevar. As G was giving his answer my brain kicked in and started running with the idea of everyone having their own reality. To some point I can jump on theVaughnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00715483939578755236noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-54046751868676182852011-10-05T18:12:00.000-05:002011-10-05T18:12:26.763-05:003 Random RantsCursive
I was sitting at home trying to write down some of the albums I wanted to download and add to my computer. I found myself frustrated by how slow I was writing cause by the time I wrote one thing down, I’d forget what I wanted to download next (my brain likes to run faster than my fingers can keep up at times). So, I kind of asked myself why I don’t write in cursive any more. It was one Vaughnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00715483939578755236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-44410158510805747362011-09-27T10:03:00.000-05:002011-09-27T10:03:51.345-05:00Self Reflection in SeptemberSo a couple of weeks ago, I took a vacation to visit my two wonderful friends and to witness them get married. As I spent my week with them, I evaluated my life and how everything is currently going. I started to think about all the things that the people in my life are going through and experiencing. I honestly feel like everyone… and I do mean EVERYONE around me is getting married or having Vaughnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00715483939578755236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-52032311687307785042011-09-21T10:09:00.001-05:002011-09-21T10:10:00.950-05:00Congratulations to the Co-Bloggers/Statement to Our ReadersMan, we fell off like T.I.'s music career didn't we? And very similar to his career it was our fault and I'd like to take this time to apologize for not posting. It's not like we are burnt out on material to talk about... I seriously doubt that will ever happen. We started this blog to share our personal experiences and viewpoints with you guys and to be honest we underestimated the level of Vaughnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00715483939578755236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-47273507298318596512011-06-22T09:00:00.000-05:002011-06-22T09:00:00.674-05:00"I Can Change" (For You)
The other night i sat with a friend and had a long talk about relationhips and dealing with all that can come with it: Drama, children, truth, growth, expectations, needs. With all relationships you have to deal with those topics and questions that qeustion, Where is this going? What do you expect out of this? What do i want out of this? Do we have a future or is this just for now? At the end Jromehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307684990818443307noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-49852513677714796382011-03-24T11:00:00.002-05:002011-03-24T11:02:54.007-05:00Who Will Save Me?
Day in and day out we all seem to be looking for someone to rescue us from our situations. So where is my savior? Who is going to rescue me from my situation? Who is going to get me out of my rut? Save me from my depression? Enrich my life with purpose. Show me that there is more to the opposite sex than what I’ve currently and recently seen. Who is going to step up and be that person?
Then Vaughnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00715483939578755236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-66314067804108243832011-03-04T11:31:00.001-06:002011-03-04T11:31:51.855-06:00The Cheating QuestionWhat would you do it if you spouse cheated on you? What would be your sequence of actions?
How would you want to be dealt with if you are the one that cheated?
Cheating… I asked this question because people’s first reaction to being cheated on is to get angry and from that emotion nothing good actually happens. I never understood why women automatically resort to violence in the situation of Vaughnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00715483939578755236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-21989573395425672212011-03-03T10:43:00.003-06:002011-03-03T11:26:59.419-06:00The Prenuptial Agreement QuestionWould you create a prenuptial agreement or sign one? How do you feel about prenuptial agreements?
Before anyone tries to bite my head off for saying what I’m about to say, I believe in protecting your assets as well as you can. If you work hard to achieve something I do not feel it is right to have that taken away from you or that you should have to share that with someone. Now there are Vaughnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00715483939578755236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-58073382307002728282011-03-02T11:08:00.005-06:002011-03-03T11:27:30.691-06:00The Traditional Marriage QuestionWould you still want to marry your spouse to be if he or she didn't want a traditional wedding?
I'm a very simple person... a traditional marriage to me is between a man and a woman, how they want to be married doesn’t really bother me. Reasons being, I’m not the one getting married and I’m not paying for their marriage. That being said I want things to be as smooth as possible when it Vaughnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00715483939578755236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-32570603707370388992011-03-01T10:38:00.001-06:002011-03-03T11:27:54.523-06:00The Engagement Ring Question
Are engagement rings important to have in the evolution of the relationship or just a waste of money?
In my personal honest opinion, engagement rings are pointless, which to me makes them a waste of money. I've heard why people think rings are so important but in the grand scheme of it all the ring holds as much importance as you put into it. At the end of each day the ring will be nothing Ghidorah3http://www.blogger.com/profile/09009793379911223858noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-7263000653264006902011-02-28T10:05:00.001-06:002011-03-03T11:28:30.567-06:00Intro to Evaluating the Next Step in RelationshipsThe older I get the more I think about marriage and relationships. To me relationship is the only thing that really matters in this world. It's the beginning and the ending of almost everything if you really think about. With my friends and family taking their relationships to the next level I could help but to ask myself questions. They were pretty interesting questions if i should say so myselfVaughnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00715483939578755236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-61312135182335429622011-02-23T10:00:00.000-06:002011-02-23T09:58:55.943-06:00You Gotta Fight 4 Your Right... (World At War)But not to party... for equality...
It's ironic that so much "revolution" is going on in the world in the same month that we celebrate "Black History". I have battled with myself for weeks questioning if I should write on this topic because it can cause so much fire within people and groups but I could not sit by and not speak on it. If not for Ghidorah for those who have ideas/thoughts but Jromehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307684990818443307noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-68715624848389714452011-02-16T10:12:00.002-06:002011-02-17T08:17:03.879-06:00Maybe It's YouSo I had this thought a while back: Have you ever wondered why you can’t find the right man? Maybe because you aren’t the right woman… but there is that possibility that you are looking for the wrong thing…
We all have up and downs but let’s get serious. I really hate how the ladies are coming to the conclusion that they can’t find a good man out there. Do you even have a realistic idea of whatVaughnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00715483939578755236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-4619828072476502132011-02-09T13:26:00.009-06:002011-02-15T10:07:49.226-06:00Artistic Passion... All Me! (pt. II)Part II check em out, hope you like, enjoy! Artistic Passion... All Me!
Good Love
I want that happy to hear voice kinda good love
that i can't sleep all the way thru the night without you kinda good love
that quick to cook you any dinner kinda good love
that "i'll get at you later dawg" kinda good love
that leave work quick for a kiss kinda good love
that only wantin to see you kinda good Jromehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307684990818443307noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-76077513503303520052011-02-04T10:59:00.003-06:002011-02-04T12:40:55.098-06:00Are you done yet?!Another night of doing the same old boring thing. You know by look in his eye what is about to go down. So you already know play by play what the night (in some cases few minutes lol) entails. Play one: He grabs your butt. CHECK Play two: He kisses your ear. CHECK Play three: He tell you he is going to beat it down (you already know his three pumps aren't worth your time) CHECK Four plays later, JustCallMeKeihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17947649794898443694noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-12518131314708649862011-02-03T12:00:00.010-06:002011-02-03T12:04:42.830-06:00No Sex: My Reevaluation of Relationships Part 2Let's continue from where I left off in Part 1
http://ghidorah3.blogspot.com/2011/02/no-sex-my-reevaluation-of-relationships.html
Lust should never be mistaken for love, but it is everyday. We choose our wants over our needs. Love doesn’t leave anyone hurt, angry and confused when it’s all said and done. I don’t want to be in a relationship where my ex can’t talk to me. To have my ex avoiding meVaughnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00715483939578755236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-56998752973253867272011-02-03T08:00:00.005-06:002011-02-03T12:06:58.565-06:00No Sex: My Reevaluation of Relationships Part 1In 2009, I decided to make certain “sacrifices” in my life. Toward the end of the year I decided to “give up sex”. By the time the New Year came around I decided to abstain from sex in 2010. To make things perfectly clear, I am not a sex addict of some sort. Sex has never been anything that I’ve struggled with. It was just something I decided to do. I initially made the decision to do it because Vaughnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00715483939578755236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-20056816186548451942011-02-02T08:00:00.001-06:002011-02-02T08:00:11.514-06:00Randomized SexSo, late Sunday night I'm flying into Charlotte, North Carolina from New York City. I have a two hour layover, so I decide to call up an old college/work friend of mine who now resides in North Carolina. Big mistake!!!
While waiting at baggage claim, I'm thinking, 'this is a big mistake. I look terrible, I have no make up on, I didn't flat iron my hair,' etc, etc, blah, blah, blah. Well, while Unknownnoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-13307151373105141582011-02-01T10:39:00.004-06:002011-02-03T10:07:32.987-06:00Sex SmorgasbordI tried to just focus on one aspect of the topic at hand, but sex is way too complex to marginalize so let's explore, shall we? *rubs hands together*
Defined
I would like to say that sex is only a way for two people who really care for each other to physically connect and express their love to one another....but that is simply not the case and hasn't been for a very long time. Among other Gevarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04706723725514488387noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-18471277578910278952011-01-31T10:30:00.001-06:002011-02-02T16:24:43.371-06:00How Do You Want It?How Does It Feel?
Many many females feel they just KNOW what a man wants and needs when in all honesty its probably a whole lot simpler than you may think. For certain "HOLIDAYS" some feel as if they have to do something extra sexy/special when actually the fact that you've shown up has done it all... (i know krazy right lol) Yet don't get me wrong if you like going all out for your man Jromehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307684990818443307noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-40592858653526926372011-01-31T08:17:00.001-06:002011-02-02T16:42:35.579-06:00SEX WEEKFirst off, we hope everyone is starting off 2011 the right way. Since its February those New years Resolutions are being tested, stay strong.
We want to thank all the readers who have been with us from the beginning and even the new comers who are reading our post, we really appreciate the interest and the support. With that being said, this week our main topic is sex. I brought up the idea Vaughnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00715483939578755236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-86320598739805494302011-01-27T11:03:00.001-06:002011-01-27T11:03:17.073-06:00Needs vs. Wants I've grown up admiring comic book superheroes. I read comics and watched plenty of television programs and movies with superheroes. I took it all in with fascination and excitement. I remember wondering why anyone would want to be a villain. Do villains just wake up and say they want everyone to hate them? I seriously doubt they do. But then again they are completely fabricated so they probably Vaughnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00715483939578755236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7671632589219084563.post-72815394756851254432011-01-26T09:30:00.002-06:002011-01-26T09:30:02.238-06:00You Know I Keep That White Girl... AYE!
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHH SNAP!!!
I guess its about time to try n ruffle some feathers....... so what better topic than the infamous Interracial Dating topic... cause we all have feelings views and opinions or what is right/wrong/otherwise.... so let git it crackin!!!
I hear people on both sides of the fence say why they would/wouldn't date out of their race. I've heard parties make Jromehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05307684990818443307noreply@blogger.com0